6:26 pm By BiancaLaureano · Movies · 18 Comments
11 Mar 2010***SPOILERS AHEAD***
It seems like it was only yesterday that Mala and I were tweeting that we were surprised we had not been invited to a screening of the upcoming film Our Family Wedding featuring America Ferrera, Carlos Mencia, Regina King, and Forest Whitaker. Then all of a sudden an invitation falls into my inbox! I’ll admit that when I started to see the trailers on television I just took a deep sigh as the images and storyline lead one to believe that it will focus on the racism that Latinos have towards Black people. And ya’ll know how I feel about that already.
The film follows Lucia performed by America Ferrera (Ugly Betty) who is attending Law School at Columbia University in NYC where she meets her fiancé Marcus performed by Lance Gross (House Of Payne, Meet The Browns), who is seeking a medical degree at the same University. We meet them as they are packing to head back to LA to visit family and announce they are getting married. Dating for less than one year, Marcus is excited to share his decision and love for Lucia with his single-father who raised him, Brad, performed by Forest Whitaker (Last King Of Scotland), who is one of LA’s most eligible bachelors ad a well known radio personality. Lucia however, is very concerned about telling her father Miguel performed by Carlos Mencia (The Mind of Mencia) and her mother Sonia performed by Diana-Maria Riva (Chasing Papi, What Women Want) about her wedding plans, dropping out of Law School to become a teaching to immigrant youth, and moving with Marcus to Laos for a Doctors Without Borders opportunity.
As I watched the film, I was entertained, but it became clear to me that the film was written by men because each of the multiple ways the female characters were developed (or not) and how they were portrayed as weak, sad, fearful, or chasing after men. Yet the men are angry, opinionated, and in various ways display levels of power not just within their specific communities but power over the women in their lives as well. Read more…
11:59 am By la Macha · Women · 3 Comments
11 Mar 2010As I’ve mentioned before, Latin@s in the midwest often don’t have a really strong base of other Latin@s to organize with. The community is a transient one, moving to where the crops are every season, rather than nurturing roots of their own. So that invokes a lot of cross ethnic/racial organizing. That usually means with the huge Arab community in the Detroit/Dearborn areas and that usually means organizing together over immigration issues rather than racial ones. Which is not to say that race isn’t recognized as an integral reason behind the violence and discrimination so many of us experience–but rather instead, race as it plays out through immigration looks different and takes on a different experience than race as it plays out for a group of people that are solidly US citizens and have been for generations.
I say all this to introduce my latest Remembering Women’s History Month post. It is a live reading of a poem by Arab poet, Suheir Hamad. In it, she talks about the death of white US activist, Rachel Corrie–who was killed by Israeli forces. You can read about the incident here.
I post this not so much because I think the details are worth debating (I don’t)–but because Suheir Hamad shows that there are ways for those of us who come from completely different backgrounds, from completely different points of view, from completely different cultures, to organize together. To be brave together, to love each other, and to defend each other. She shows that most times that organizing through love happens through women. Who must carry their babies on their hips, take their children to meetings, and engage in activities that put their bodies on the front lines with little to no defense or protection.
Many people have asked how I can engage in a more radical politic even as I support reform policies. This is how. There are women all through Latin America (I am thinking mostly of the Zapatistas, but recognize that there are countless others) who are standing on the same front line that Rachel Corrie was–who are facing low intensity warfare every single day of their lives, seeing their children murdered through starvation, seeing their loved ones murdered because they organized a union, seeing their lands disappear. The women who fight on those front lines, on those borders–who fight with their bodies and their love and their belief in humanity–deserve no less.
That is how we will negotiate that uncomfortable Latin@ identity–through love.
To the women of Puerto Rico, Mexico, Chile, Columbia, Brazil, Palestine, Tejas, Califas–to the all the Border Women: I say VIVA.
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