4:59 am By Jennifer Woodard Maderazo · California| GLBT| Politics| Spain| World| society
5 Nov 2008
It’s 11 a.m. in Barcelona, and 2 a.m. in San Francisco, my home city. And after waking up to the news of the Obama win, celebrating it with people here, feeling overjoyed at the fact that 8 years of Republican reign is finally over and the impact that will have on the world, and that a person of color is in the White House…I got a sinking feeling. I climbed down off my cloud and back to reality to have a look at the voting returns on California’s Proposition 8.
For those of you who are unfamiliar with Prop 8, it is a state ballot measure which would amend the California constitution to limit marriage to unions between a man and a woman, effectively making gay marriage illegal. You might remember that a few months back the California Supreme Court ruled that denying same-sex couples the right to marry was unconstitutional. Marriages followed, among them that of TV star Ellen DeGeneres and her partner actress Portia De Rossi.
With 80% of precincts reporting, it looks like my fellow Californians have spoken, and their words are not what I expected. Prop 8 is winning by 4 percent, and the trend is likely to remain the same once all the votes are counted.
Yesterday a Spanish colleague said to me “I don’t even have to ask who you voted for…you’re a Californian!” I felt proud because what she meant was that for her, California stands as a bastion of understanding, diversity, acceptance, tolerance and respect in a country seen as just the opposite outside of its borders.
But looking at what has happened today with Prop 8, I can’t celebrate being a Californian. I chose California to be my home for all of those reasons, and I feel betrayed. The observation is more acute when I consider where I am right now: a country that made gay marriage legal 4 years ago, and where public officials don’t bat an eyelash when two men or two women go file for a marriage license.
My happiness over Obama’s victory could only have been clouded by a Yes vote on Prop 8. The most painful thing about it is that since California is an overwhelmingly Democratic state, many of the people who voted Yes on 8 are also Obama supporters. And today they are celebrating a triumph of their candidate and a triumph of hate over love at the same time. The irony.
Via / SF Chronicle
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11 Responses to Prop 8 is Winning, Gay Couples Losing in California
PL
November 5th, 2008 at 6:24 am
Yeah, I am pretty upset too being in California’s most liberal county - but if the Yes on 8 people think that 16000 couples are just going to sit calmly and not do anything, they are kidding themselves.
This victory will be shortlived for the haters.
And I could care less for Obama’s win in light of this daily struggle.
Kyle
November 5th, 2008 at 7:21 am
Prop 8 was never a triumph of “hate over love” it was simply a legal measure to define that there is a difference between a same sex couple and a couple that consists of a man and a wife. No one can deny that there are, at the very least, biological differences here.
This re-definition in no way discriminates against people who are of the same sex, it simply informs them that Californians believe that, legally, their union should not be treated the same as a marriage union. There are too many laws related to the term “marriage” that need to be addressed individually.
To say that a civil union is the same as a marriage would be to grant a blanket “amnesty” to the due process of civil rights law, and Californians have voiced that they don’t agree with such an amnesty, since they don’t believe that the unions are the same.
This is the statement that is being made: that the two terms need to be defined differently, as they are different, not that all Californians “hate love.”
Maegan la Mala
November 5th, 2008 at 9:19 am
So we are now using laws to define biology? If that’s the case, then that is scary. The fact is that this is not about biology, this is about privilege and shown clearly by your use of the word amnesty, as if now same sex couples are those scary undocumented clamoring to be seen as the same when they already are. This is about human rights. Were there not (and still are in many ways) separate but equal laws based on race in this country that were anything but equal. As soon as we start othering one group/one circumstance and mainstreaming another, we are dealing with power and privilege. Punto.
Scott
November 5th, 2008 at 1:15 pm
The voters once again have spoken.. and if taken to Supreme court they won’t touch it.. Enjoy your lives together.. but not in marriage.
:wave:
Aaron
November 5th, 2008 at 2:36 pm
Prop 8 passed in California because the religious right believe homosexuality is a sin. In general Catholics, Protestants, Mormons, and Muslims all identify homosexuality as a sin. The reality is the sum of those communities often make up the majority of the population, in a democracy the majority rules. A Democracies major flaw is that it can not and will not please all groups of people. America provides us with the freedom, as long as Americans have freedom, different interest and conflicts will arise. Both sides need to learn to respect each other and somehow live in harmony.
Jen
November 5th, 2008 at 3:30 pm
I think this sends a powerful message to activist judges that 1 vote in the state supreme court is nothing compared to the voice of millions of people in a democratic society.
Elizabeth
November 5th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
We need to end the non-profit status of any and all religious institutions that meddle in politics, legislate from the pulpit, tell their congregations for whom and how to vote, push to create laws and change constititions. They are no longer religions, they are big businesses.
According to the IRS rules for tax exempt status “no organization may intervene in political campaigns” and “no part of it’s activity may be to influence legislation.” Clearly the new congress needs to investigate these outright abuses.
Since these mega churches now have so much input into the political process and believe that everyone who believes differently from themselves should not be afforded the same benefits.
At the very least the LDS and the Catholic churches who lead the prop 8 political initiative should loose their tax exempt status. Just think of how quickly we could reduce America’s debt if only these so-called religious businesses paid their fair share of taxes on the billions of dollars they collect each Sabath.
I was once told that gay people can still marry, just not the same sex. How stupid. If the curches want to legislate, then they shouldn’t get the perks associated with the real religions that follow the rules. How realistic!
Greg
November 5th, 2008 at 5:41 pm
A sad day for California. Those who opposed Prop. 8 WILL STAND UP and FIGHT AGAIN. And Prop. 8 should have never passed, I am disappointed that Californians want to take the right away from others.
Aaron
November 5th, 2008 at 5:51 pm
Elizabeth I understand your pain and frustration when non-profit institutions tell their members how to vote. But where do we draw the line? If the government mandates religious institutions to pay taxes because of their involvement in the political process, shouldn’t that also prevent and stop professors in colleges from speaking about politics freely? I am a Senior at one of the California State Universities and I have had several professors tell the class how they should vote and why. A large portion of their salary come from tax payers, if we regulate non-profit organizations shouldn’t we also regulate public schools?
Peter
November 5th, 2008 at 8:05 pm
You may be moved to CA after 2000, that year 4M voters approved prop 22 to limit marriage to a man and a woman. Now 5M Californian voters restore that vote. Since you have happily lived in CA for last 8 years, you are still welcome (sounds like you don’t want to be one of californian in your article) to live here happily ever after.
Adam W.
November 5th, 2008 at 8:08 pm
It’s actually not just a ban on gay marriage. What unsuspecting voters did not realize is that, while on its face it appealed to an anti-gay bias and hoped to pass based on that prejudice alone, it was drawn up in such a way as to prevent second marriages.
That was the result of the heavy lobbying done by the “One Man One Woman Marriage Society,” (”OMOWMS”), which is a kind of underground society formed by a coalition of Catholic and Baptist fundamentalists. It pushed for the amendment to define marriage as between “one” man and “one” woman. The original language included the additional language “at one time,” which would have permitted second marriages and simply prohibited the marriage of one man to two woman (or vice versa) at the same time. But this particular lobby successfully defeated the inclusion of that language, and that is why the only marriage that is permitted under the amendment is that between ONE man and ONE woman.
Second marriages, at least in California, will no longer be recognized by the state, and formerly married individuals who apply for marriage licenses in California will now be turned down. Hopefully Governor Schwarzenegger will not appoint any activist judges who will read beyond the plain language in the amendment and start allowing second marriages. The OMOWMS obviously didn’t want their efforts to become public, as they thought, rightly so, that although most Californians would want to prohibit gay marriage on the basis that God intended marriage to be between a man and a woman, those same Californians want the opportunity to remarry if they get tired of their spouses even though God probably didn’t think that that marriage should be torn asunder by divorce.